如何在生活和職場中得著寬闊之地

　　中國人多，所以到哪都得擠。因為太擠，資源緊張，所以相爭成為了我們生活中最常見的現(xiàn)象。不僅生活中如此，工作和職場中更是如此。老板與員工相爭，員工與同事相爭，企業(yè)與供應(yīng)商和其他合作伙伴相爭，與顧客相爭，與競爭對手相爭，反正只要涉及到利益和資源就會有相爭，各種糾紛不斷。

　　Chinese, so where are crowded. Because the left, strained resources, so the struggle has become the most common phenomenon in our daily life. So not only in life, work and the workplace is even more so. Against the boss and employee, employee and colleagues contend, enterprises and suppliers and other partners to contend with, and contend against customers, competitors and, anyway, as long as related to the interests and resources will have to contend with, various disputes.

　　其實，不僅是中國現(xiàn)在人多資源少，在幾千年前的中東也同樣面臨這個處境。亞伯蘭帶著他的妻子和侄兒羅得從埃及地上來住在迦南地的伯特利和艾城的中間的時候，“那地容不下他們，因為他們的財物甚多，使他們不能同居。當時，迦南人與比利洗人在那地居住。亞伯蘭的牧人和羅得的牧人相爭。”可見，資源緊張導(dǎo)致各種“相爭”是自古以來人們一直都面臨的一個困境。

　　In fact, not only is Chinese now less resources, thousands of years ago in the Middle East also face this situation. When Abram took his wife and his nephew lot to dwell in the midst of the land of Canaan Bethel and AI from the land of Egypt, "the land could not support them, for their substance was great, so that they could not dwell together. At that time, the Canaanites and Billy wash the people living in the land. Abram shepherd and his sheep." Visible, strained resources lead to all kinds of "struggle" is a dilemma facing all people have since ancient times.

　　但對于此事，在古代中東有一個叫亞伯蘭的人，給了我們一個解決這一困境的秘訣。這個秘訣就是以“相讓”來解決“相爭”的問題!他給了羅得一個優(yōu)先的選擇權(quán)，“你向左，我就向右;你向右，我就向左�！绷_得沒有浪費這個優(yōu)先選擇的機會，他選擇了滋潤的約旦河全平原。這個地方“如同耶和華的園子，也像埃及地。”而亞伯蘭則住在了迦南的山地。在人看來，亞伯蘭把好的地讓給了羅得。但是，神卻賜福給亞伯蘭，并且應(yīng)許他說：“從你所在的地方，你舉目向東西南北觀看，凡你所看見的一切地，我都要賜給你和你的你后裔，直到永遠。”

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